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Apr. 22nd, 2025 10:50 pm
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And finally our work in [personal profile] mashfanficchick's mother's house is completed!

I got up at 11:00, had coffee, showered and dressed. [personal profile] mashfanficchick's friend Liz G came at 12:00 and we met her at the house, and took two trips to the storage unit, bringing the last boxes over.

Then we had lunch at a Chinese restaurant, which was delicious.

Finally, Liz G drove a few things from the house to [personal profile] mashfanficchick's apartment, and the very last thing of all, [personal profile] mashfanficchick and I walked a folding table that wouldn't fit in the car from the house to the apartment. And that was that.

I stayed awhile longer, to hang and relax, and then I Ubered home.

I got home a little after 6:00 and fed the pets, and puttered on the computer til 7:00 when I Skyped the FWiB.

We talked til 8:00 when I had my Al-anon meeting. That was very small but good. M wasn't there. I hope she's OK.

Then I had a little to eat, and texted with the Kid about funeral arrangements. A depressing subject but now that Oldest Brother has entered hospice, pretty necessary. It looks as though we'll do a direct cremation with a service at the crematorium, followed by a two hour memorial at the funeral home. I hope that cousin Cliff will be able to do the service.

Went to the bedroom and played solitaire, then came out and fed the pets again. Time for bed pretty soon.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. The house is done.

3. Good lunch.

4. The Kid.

5. Cousin Cliff.

6. My copy of One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish came.

Shade guy

Apr. 22nd, 2025 02:46 pm
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A few weeks ago, they reswizzled our security situation at the front door. They moved the office and the sign in post and also moved the whole thing to new software. Today was the first time I saw it in action. The old stuff was slow and clunky and slow and clunky. The new stuff is swift. And it remembers. The shade guy was here once before - I gather a year or two ago - but it remembered him which made the already fast process faster.

I got both a text and an email with his photo the minute he signed in and he got a visitor badge. One process slick as a whistle.

He's a really nice guy and understood what I wanted and what I didn't want immediately. He's got the goods. Roller shades, wifi enabled to an app and to Google Home or Echo. Rechargeable batteries with a dongle I can reach easily. (My ohsoexpensive shades in the condo required AA batteries. 84 of them - about every 9 months and a royal PIA to change out.)

3 to 5 weeks but, he allowed as how it will probably be closer to the 3 week part of that since apparently, people aren't buying big right now... snerk snerk.

He had way too many options but I picked a color close to the window trim and a texture that I hope Julio will have no interest in. I asked for one shade for the three paneled window and one for the door. He was not sure whether they would do a single for the window because it's so wide. Fingers crossed.

He's going to send me a quote. I can sign electronically and pay up and he'll get it going.

He was a very nice guy and I'm happy to be doing biz with him.

Oh, his measuring tool was a laser and he said he had learned how to be very careful using it in cat households. Julio and Biggie were way too busy investigating his cases to see it but he was doing all of his measuring with a cat toy. He said that early on, he was measuring in a house full of cats and inadvertently had them crashing into China and knocking over a book case while he was trying to get measurements.

Where oh where

Apr. 22nd, 2025 10:57 am
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I got home from errands and there were no cats to be seen. Biggie has taken to hanging in the bathroom these days. There's a very large towel that hangs in there and often he pulls it down. I finally got a clue as to why just now when I went in to pee. He doesn't mean to pull it down, just down enough for a cat tent!

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Julio has yet to be seen but he has lots of hiding places and he'll be out in a min. Biggie will stay in his hidey hole for hours on end. Julio stays 5 mins or less.

Errands all done. Lunch ordered for pickup. Dinner ordered for pickup. I'll toe soak again after lunch.

So far, the day is ok dokey.

Toe to toe

Apr. 22nd, 2025 08:50 am
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Last Wednesday, my big toe started bleeding from a split on the side of it. I don't remember hitting it nor did it hurt. I put a bandaid on it and all was good. Yesterday the bandaid was tired of being on it so I took it off and everything looked fine. This morning I woke up and that toe was one pissed off toe. It's not mad at the joint so I don't think it's gout. The only visual change is that it's red. But only a little. It does hurt when you press on it and it's not too happy about walking. Crocs help.

Dr. Google says soak in Epsom salt for 15 minutes 3 times a day. soak 1 is now halfway done. Dr. Google also recommends anti fungal cream which I actually have on hand. So. hopefully, I can nip this in the bud. I do not want toe issues.

Playing volleyball was fine because my swim shoes have lots of toe room.

I do think I'm going out this morning. Amazon returns and a couple of things at Safeway. Mainly tortillas. The shades guy comes at 2.

I have two small ottomans in the bedroom both of which have storage. They have held stuff I rarely need. The top shelf of my closet holds blankets and quilts. Yesterday I swapped everything so that my blankets and quilts are now far more easy to get to as is my iron. I've now lived here a year and a half. Maybe in another year and a half, I'll have it organized right!

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Unexpectedly staying another night

Apr. 22nd, 2025 01:03 am
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Got up latish, got phone calls from the hospice people, Oldest Brother officially started hospice today and I had some decisions to make. I hope I chose well.

Showered and dressed, and we went out to run errands. Started by lunch at an Indian restaurant, got the lamb curry lunch special and a mango lassi.

Then we went to Trader Joes and did major shopping. Then we took the bus to Stop and Shop and did more major shopping.

[personal profile] mashfanficchick asked me to stay another night so we can start early tomorrow, and get the Very Last Boxes out of the house and to the storage unit with the driving help of zer friend Liz G. And I agreed, so I'm staying tonight.

Got back to zer place from Stop and Shop, stopping at Starbucks on the way, and heard from RK that he was available to help tonight getting stuff from the house that isn't going into the storage unit. We took his car over, and got the stuff back here. One big box broke open on it's way in, but RK picked it up.

Then we went out to California Pizza Kitchen and got take out. I got the Wild Mushroom pizza. WE went to RK's place, and after we ate we played a game of Dominion. RK won, I lost rather badly, but I am beginning to understand how the game works.

Then he drove us back here, and soon it will be bed time.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB, even though we didn't get to Skype.

2. Oldest Brother in hospice care.

3. Dried apple slices.

4. The Kid has a job interview.

5. RK.

6. Friends.
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  1. Who was your first crush?

    Real person: It was a boy named Colin, in the fifth grade. I would have been ten years old. I can't remember anything about him except he had blue eyes and I could make him laugh until he cried.

    Fictional TV character: Jean-Luc Picard.

    Fictional literary character: Sherlock Holmes.

  2. Are you an introvert or an extrovert?

    I have extrovert energy, but I'm an introvert and I very much need my alone time.

  3. What is your favorite non-sexual thing you like to do with the love of your life?

    I can't think of a particular favourite. I just enjoy his company.

  4. What is one quirky habit your partner does that either annoys you or makes you grin?

    This does both: throwing his pants at the laundry basket and missing. Like, every single day.

  5. Do you believe in monogamous relationships?

    It works for me. I do understand they're not for everyone.

Weirdest snack

Apr. 21st, 2025 07:29 am
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I love raw pie crust. Yeah, I know, weird. They sell them all rolled up into log shapes at the grocery. I take a long and chop it up into one inch pieces and put it in a plastic container in the fridge and, when I need a snack, I grab one. I'm sure I'm not the only one. But maybe I am.

I went down to get brunch from the buffet line yesterday and the line was way way way too long and not moving fast so no thanks. I had a lovely day up here. Knitting and watching TV.

I was not overly sleepy when I went to bed but had no problem drifting off. A little after 9. I did not wake up again until 5:30 and then, after a pee, went back to sleep for another hour and a half. 95 on my bed's sleep scale.

John, who is 88, says everyone dies at 88. Clearly not everyone but he sure nailed the pope. John turns 89 in a few weeks so he feels like he'll be in the clear.

I have another Amazon return but also a week to return it so probably won't be going today. Tomorrow the shades guy comes. He's a recommendation from my designer friend and has done shades here at Timber Ridge but weirdly, I cannot find any details about his shades. Good yelp,etc reviews on his service but nothing on the shades. I want wifi connected shades. And I'm really not interested in shades that aren't. I could call him and get more details but I think I'll just let him come out and 'sell' me. Wednesday I think I might go to Goodwill. I might go to the one in Bellevue as opposed to my old stomping grounds in Seattle.

Back when air fryers were a brand spanking new thing, I got one. It was gynormous and loud and had fiddly parts. And fun to play with but soon it broke. The plastic bit that held the basket in broke off. But, by then, they had toaster ovens that also did air frying. Ok. So I got one of those and have had variations of those ever since. Til now. My latest is small because my needs are small and my space is small. But it's honestly too small to really keep clean and has other issues. So I put it away. And bought a straight forward, simple air fryer. And I love it. This one is way smaller overall than my first one with a larger basket! And it is so simple to just toss the basket into the dishwasher. At some point I may get the toaster oven out again but maybe not.

Yesterday was mini monsters day but today it's back to dolls.

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Apr. 21st, 2025 09:56 am
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In the future all zoo trips will look like this.
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Happy Easter

Apr. 20th, 2025 11:47 pm
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And the last day of Passover too.

Slept late and got up around 12:00. Had breakfast and coffee, showered, washed my hair, dressed, and left to see Oldest Brother.

Stayed for about an hour. He was pretty good, about the same.

Then I came over to [personal profile] mashfanficchick's place. We did some chores, then ordered dinner and watched Will Trent. Dinner was pernil and beans and rice.

We watched Will Trent for several hours, at 8:30 I called Middle Brother. He was out at Belmont Lake State Park yestrday and had a good time.

We went back to watching Will Trent, and have now finally caught up to the current episodes. We'll watch Tuesday's episode Thursday.

I Skyped the FWiB from my phone after Will Trent.

I'm spending the night here again.

I texted John and The Kid, no answers from either yet. Laurie texted me to wish me Happy Easter.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. Good TV.

3. Middle Brother well.

4. Oldest Brother holding his own.

5. Good dinner.

6. Family.
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How have you spent the Easter break? I've spent it at the Conquest gaming convention, where four hundred nerds took over every room of the Coburg City Hall for a convention that's been running since the 1980s. Not that I did any gaming myself, as I safely esconced at the RPG Review Cooperative table with various games that members have put up for sale, which includes a majority of which is fundraising for the Isla Bell Charitable Fund. This particular run, "Gamers for Isla" is now coming to a close after an eight-week fundraising campaign which raised approximately $15000, with a bit in various pledges to come in. I must thank Andrew, Charmaine, Penny, Liz, Karl, Michael, Edward, Rade, and Tim for helping transport goods, staffing the stall, and generally providing awesome company over the three days.

A real highlight of the convention was the visits from Isla Bell's family to our group. This included her uncle, Kieran, who provided an opening speech at Conquest about who Isla was, what happened to her, and the importance of the Fund. Also present on that day was his partner who has a mutual interest in immersive technologies as a teaching tool. The following day, there was a visit from Isla's mother, Justine, and her partner, and then on the third day, a visit from her uncle, Christopher. Justine made a rather delightful Facebook reel about our fundraising efforts, and Christopher and I had a long conversation about an old mutual friend (sadly departed), Simon Millar. Michael O'Brien of the gaming company, Chaosium, donated the special-edition folio set of their most famous roleplaying game, "Call of Cthulhu", to further raise money for the Fund.

In this context, it is necessary to make a few comments about Easter. The Biblical literalism, bound too strongly and ludicrously by religious fundamentalists, is too easy to mock. The notion of "zombie Jesus" brings laughter, and even deeper, the argument that "Jesus the Lich" is even more accurate (gamers understand that one). My irreverent side derives pleasure from this as well. But what is overlooked by both the fundamentalists and the new atheists and their ilk is a metaphorical reading; that for any person of great spirit, not even the end of their life is the end of their story. Certainly, it is a critical juncture in their wider narrative, not just the closing of a chapter, but the ending of a book. But the narrative and themes of the character can continue. And this is what groups like the Isla Bell Fund charity represent: a tribute that continues a story that deserves and needs to be told. So, for all of you (myself included), go and produce great art, seek and advocate for justice and liberty, and unearth the facts of our shared existence.

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Apr. 20th, 2025 12:21 pm
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Pop stars in the making.

(Pretty sure the one on the right has been up for three nights in a row and the drugs are now wearing off.)
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Sunday

Apr. 20th, 2025 07:20 am
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The Sunday brunch here is served from 9-1. Today's a special brunch but I figured the hours were the same. Nope. Just looked and it's 11-1:30. Glad I looked. I did tell Hazel that I wouldn't be joining them in the elbow. Baseball is such a good excuse.

Yesterday in Elbow Coffee they announced Yet Another Emergency Drill. We are to bring our Go Bags (empty is fine) and Pet Carriers (empty is preferred) and meet in the elbow on Monday the 28th at 2 pm to test elevator capacity. There are a lot of questions there but those are not the questions everyone in the elbow killed 45 minutes asking. "What if I don't have a Go Bag?" "Ingrid's walker is bigger than mine so I bring mine?" "How will we know when to come to the elbow?" "My cat has two carriers. Should I bring both?" etc etc etc.

I am very weary of disaster preparedness. And of stupid questions.

According to the emails I got, the power went out at the condo yesterday about 8:30 am. The power company first said it would be restored by 2:30. Then 4:30. Then 8:30. I'm guessing it probably came on about 9ish because the emails stopped. But boy were they entertaining. When they put in the key fob system, they didn't bother with a backup. I actually suggested it but they said that the system would run for 8 hours after a power outage so no need. Turns out, it actually runs for about 3, then no way to get into the building unless someone lets you in. They also had several electrical things - a pump and something else I don't remember - that no one turned off which then triggered a fire alarm. Each email got less informative and more ridiculous. And the garage doors were also not working except someone manually tried one of them and broke it.

I spent all day yesterday sooooooo grateful to be here. Our four days of power outage were way less traumatic than their 8 hours. I haven't heard officially, but I'm guessing no buyers yesterday.

I'm going to get dressed and then walk downstairs before anyone gets up and about. The point is to get some steps in without peopling. Then I think I'll hole up in here with my knitting needles and baseball. Yesterday I ended up listening to the Mariners game against the Blue Jays which turned out to be a great listen. And 12 innings of a fun game.

I've only got 5 more days of my Netflix month and I haven't even started the new season of Night Agent. May have to pop for another month. I have several Prime things I want to watch but their stuff is darkly lit that I'm kind of saving them for when I get the blinds in here and can block the daylight some. I'm not sure that's going to help but it's worth a try.

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Apr. 20th, 2025 12:00 pm

Al-anon and stuff

Apr. 19th, 2025 10:18 pm
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Got up and went to my Al-anon meeting by bus after having breakfast and coffee, and showering. The meeting was smaller than usual but good. I chaired again.

Got a ride to the diner and had a bagel with cream cheese and lox, and iced coffee. Got a ride home from L, very nice.

Got here in time to see the last two seconds of the credits of the Starsky and Hutch episode. Oh well. Had fun at the chat, though. I put in a Shipt order while we were chatting,

We chatted til about 5:30. Then I killed time puttering on the computer, until 7:00 when I Skyped the FWiB. We talked til 8:30.

[personal profile] mashfanficchick texted right when we got off and we discussed tomorrow. I'm going to go see Oldest Brother, then decide if I'm going over to zer or not.

After that I got something for dinner, and went into the bedroom to play solitaire.

Did that til pet feeding time, then I fed the pets and here I am.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. My meetings and the people there.

3. Beautiful weather.

4. The Starsky and Hutch fandom.

5. Relaxing day.

6. Shipt.
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The Gender Recognition Act was brought in in 2004 because the UK lost a court case at the ECHR in 2002.*

The court said:
"In the twenty first century the right of transsexuals to personal development and to physical and moral security in the full sense enjoyed by others in society cannot be regarded as a matter of controversy requiring the lapse of time to cast clearer light on the issues involved. In short, the unsatisfactory situation in which post-operative transsexuals live in an intermediate zone as not quite one gender or the other is no longer sustainable."

This is under article 8 of the European Convention on Human Rights - the right to a private life.

Placing "trans women" in a generally** different category than "women" is definitely putting them in an intermediate zone. And expecting them to make their assigned gender public is definitely taking the "private" out of "private life".

The UK is still a signatory to the convention. Cases can still be taken to its court. Leaving it would mean a *major* falling out with the EU. I suspect that if the UK tries to nudge things far at all that they will find the court takes a dim view.


*Fought, and lost, by Labour. Because they have never been onside in this area.
**It is possible to carve out exceptions in the current system. But they have to be justified on a case by case basis. A general finding that trans people are not of their legal gender is almost certainly not that.

Disengaging

Apr. 19th, 2025 08:54 am
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Part of maybe most of the reason I enjoyed working the jigsaw puzzles in the elbow was the traffic there. I could see who was going where and interact minimally with my neighbors. But, I think now, I'm over that. I had lunch with Hazel and John yesterday and remembered why that was no longer fun. They are sweet but fairly clueless. Their conversation is repetitive and borderline racist and not at all interesting. Making the effort to maintain relationships needs to pay off for me. And I'm not getting a big enough pay off. I'm just not kind enough or nice enough. The other neighbors are nice but not the people I want to hang with. Plus, Noelle has taken to leaving me Jesus shit on my shelf. Hopefully, it's just because of Easter but NoThankYou.

Hazel and John want us all to go to the Easter Buffet and get our food and then eat up here together. 1. They don't want to do it until after they get out of church at 11 which means the time the buffet line with be the longest. 2. There is no longer much 'us'. and 3. They aren't Myrna. Myrna would organize it and bully every one and rally everyone into joining her and it was great. Hazel and John will put out place mats and wonder why no one shows. I'm going to tell them this morning that I need to go down early because I have a baseball game.

I hope the new people coming in are lovely. But, if not, they won't be spoiling a perfect little group cause that ship has sailed.

I have gotten several things lately with rechargeable batteries. They all come with a short USB A to USB C cable. Which I do not need. I now have an over flowing drawer of those cables. And charging warts. I've given away a million charging warts. And, still, my charging warts drawer over floweth. It's the wire hangers of today.

I just caught Biggie chewing on some foam. I don't think he got enough to do damage but at least I know for sure that he has not entirely lost his skill in EatingCrapThatCausesSurgery.

And speaking of ingesting... I keep grape juice in the fridge. Once or twice a day, I'll reach in and take a swig. I buy it in big bottles and then pour it into mason jars for easier swigging. Yesterday I swigged the rest of one of the jars and then noticed something in the remainder. MOLD!! I drank moldy grape juice. Ugh. It's been nearly 24 hours and I'm not dead so I'm guessing it wasn't fatal but ugh.

I have only been putting out one doll a day and then one at night. The one at night often makes it to the day. I hoard the rest for the weekend. Today I put them all out and they are cracking me up.

The tweak I've done to the doll pattern enables them to 'stand' if they are propped. The only ones toppled unless supported on 3 sides. But these just line up like a street gang. I didn't realize they were all looking in different directions until I saw the picture. That's cracking me up, too.

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I did laundry yesterday and a little closet reorg so all there is today after elbow coffee is knitting and baseball. My kind of day.
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